Hi Lynn,

I'm so sorry to hear that you are not where you would like to be at 3 weeks explant.... Hang in there as it can take some time to "fluff" out.   One side must have been worse then the other.

There are many, many products that you can use to help even yourself out -- while healing.  
This is a sample of just some of them available on this website.   If you go to a proper fitter for mastectomy products they can hook you right up to something that will help out.
When you think of how many of us have to face cancer and partial or total mastectomies and have implant removal there is at least 1 out of 5 women wearing these things so don't feel like you are alone.

http://www.nearlyou.com/products.taf?search=Partial_Mastectomy_Products&parent_id=36

You are in my thoughts and prayers and I'll be back tomorrow to help you with some instructions on how to post pictures....  Sorry, I've been super busy tonight and just on here for a second this evening.

Emot-big-hug-1 Hang in there!   Rosie