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Jan 31 11 1:22 PM
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Good Morning to one and all.... This will be me for a while now. I was told that if I wanted to see my mother before she passes I should think of heading home. Justin also told my oldest brother that to, he is like our Gracie, a Snow Bird. He said he will wait till it is over so he can remember her and the way she was in November. My sister is not financially able to fly back and it could actually hurt her health wise. She chooses to remember Mother as she was when she first went into the nursing home. Now me??? I am greedy. I want every minute to count with her and plan on being with her all that I can. I want to be there if possible when she passes on. She has already seen my father and he wants her to come home. So, the veil is lifting and that means she is almost ready to go to God. When the time comes it will be okay. I want her to know that today so she doesn't think she has to stay for the family. She could pass any day or in the next few weeks, we are unsure. But she is getting morphine pills every hour for pain and that is a sign that the cancer is spreading. But that is part of the circle of life. We are born, we serve our purpose here on earth and then go back home to God. Jo, you said about hearing your sisters voice. I can remember after my father died and I was a teenager and he came back to me. I was up to no good, as usual back then and was laying in bed and all of a sudden I heard his voice say "Now what did you do?" I jumped out of bed and ran screaming through the hallway to my mothers room and confessed right away. Now my father does come back to my sister and talks to her. He never has me but he has helped to guide her in her life. My brother comes back to bug me and that is fine with me. The only time I experienced something odd was when I had my throat and nose worked on and I was in bed. I was of course groggy and I felt someone sit on my bed and kiss me. He told me he loved me and was there. The kiss was so real that I went and asked Ken later if he had been upstairs and he told me no. Then I knew it was Tom from my past. So, these things do happen and it is amazing how often they happen and just when we need that extra love or touch. I too enjoyed the weather in NC yesterday. I must be adjusting well to the temps because I only had a light jacket on till I hit PA. Then I had to put a coat on to pump gas and suffered all the way to my brothers house. So, I want some of that warmth to follow me up here too. Aida just take it easy. Housework is okay but so over rated, when you get that little kick of energy but don't play Rosie and push yourself. I have the Epstein Barr antibodies in my system but they have been inactive the past few years so I don't worry too much. I did find that when I go into a Fibro Flare like LisaChristina mentioned that if I take Mucinex it helps with the aches and pains some. There was information a few years back that stated they were finding it to help those with Fibro with their pain and it does help me. That is until it affects my stomach and then I have to stop.Brenda, I sure hope and pray that the storm doesn't hit you as hard as they expect it to. I know they are calling for snow here tomorrow and then icy rain or something like that afterwards. I don't care as long as they have the roads cleared and the ones I drive on are highways so I should be okay. That is Ken's on fear, that I will be in a wreck and destroy the car or get seriously hurt. Well, just to be stubborn I refuse to do either.... that should fix him then. I must run here and dress to get my clothes out of the car so I can shower and head into the nursing home. Only my brother and one friend knows I am here and for a few days I want to keep it that way. I don't want my best friend to expect me to stay at her house because I always end up sick when I do and don't need that right now. I will be back later on for an update so for now.... Love to all, Joy
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