Hi Astrid........and WELCOME!!! You have found the best place ever for help. Read everything you can on this website and you will know you are doing the right thing. I am so sorry for all you've had to endure, and all of us here can definitely relate to your situation. Rosie and Grace should be along any time now and they will lead you along your way. I am so happy that you found a dr finally who believes you and a husband who supports you. I know the info Roseanne gave you will help also. Keep coming back .......Linda